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Issue:- 5 December 2014

Family time tops Christmas lists in the North of England

ARGUMENT free family time comes top of most people in the North of England's Christmas list this year, reveals a survey released by leading relationships charity Relate Cheshire & Merseyside. With Christmas fast approaching, 91% of people in the North of England asked by YouGov said that spending time with immediate family was important to them for a happy Christmas (respondents were given a list of options to choose from). Interestingly, 84% of people also rated avoiding family arguments as important.

The survey of over 400 people aged 16 and over also showed that people seem to prioritise their closest family members during the festive season, with 57% of those asked rating spending time with extended family as important.

In fact, of the options listed, the only thing less important than spending time with extended family was receiving the right gifts; with 25% of people saying this was important for a happy Christmas. And when it comes to gifts, it seems giving is better than receiving, as 77% of people in the North of England said getting the right gifts for others was fairly or very important for a happy Christmas.

When asked what they were worried about this Christmas, the top answer was the cost of the celebrations (42%).

The 2nd biggest worries at Christmas were not having enough time to prepare and having family arguments (20% each) Cooking and hosting Christmas, however, seems to be a walk in the park for many, with 10% saying they were fairly or very worried about hosting and 7% saying they were worried about cooking.

Relate Counsellor Susie Woods said:- “Christmas can be a great chance to spend time with loved ones, but it can also be really stressful. High expectations, money worries and family tensions can put a real strain on celebrations. It can seem impossible to please everyone and sometimes the family home can feel like a simmering pot just waiting to boil over.  But simple techniques like thinking about what you want to say before voicing any concerns can really help to cool things down. And some frustrations or arguments can be headed off before they ever happen by making sure that everyone gets a chance to air hopes and worries before the season gets into full swing. So get talking now!”

The poll also suggests that not everyone has a network of people to share celebrations with: 14% of people in the North of England are concerned about feeling lonely this Christmas. Susie continued:- “Whilst it may seem like a struggle to include extended family and friends in your celebrations, you might be able to make a huge difference to someone who's feeling lonely at this time of year.”

Here are Relate Cheshire & Merseyside's 5 top tips for ensuring everyone has a happier Christmas:-

► Start talking early. Encourage everyone to be honest about their festive hopes and fears.

► Don't overpromise. If something is impractical, or too expensive, it's OK to explain why it can't happen.

► Try to compromise. For example, your partner might want to spend a cosy Christmas alone together, whereas you might want to be with your wider family. Compromise by waking up together and having a special breakfast before joining the family for Christmas dinner.

► It's OK to say 'no'. If someone's wishes can't be accommodated, explain why and see if it's possible to do something similar at a later date.

► Enjoy yourself! Take a step back and try not to get too bogged down in the organisation.

Relate Cheshire & Merseyside offers information, advice and counselling for all relationships, including family counselling. Call:- 0300 330 5793 or visit:- for more information on how Relate Cheshire & Merseyside can support you and your family this Christmas.

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